![]() ![]() This is the true battle which you have to win in order to find real true happiness and inner peace. When a colleague resorts to office politics against you, your easier battle is to resort to equal or worse politics against him to get revenge and your bigger battle lies in turning away from the seemingly easy and attractive path towards a better direction – The direction of proving to all only through performance and hard work without going down to your colleague’s level and resorting to similar negative activities. So ask yourself, have you won the bigger battle or not? The bigger battle in life is always about being wise and matured. The bigger battle is always about not giving in to your instincts, taking a step back, taking a rational decision and forcing yourself to look towards the better direction of things. The true sense of achievement, the inner peace that you have fought the bigger battle and got the better of life is what can give you true happiness and inner peace. What you are essentially doing is conveniently fighting the easy battle out and letting yourself belief that you have won it! You know this deep down in your heart but you choose not to see. So, haven’t you being choosing all the battles that are smaller and easier to fight? Think about it. If you choose the easier battle you lose the other one! Once smaller and easier and one bigger and tougher. It’s not winning battles that makes you happy, but it’s how many times you turned away and chose to look into a better direction.ĭoes the wisdom of the above words strike you? Always remember that there are always two battles to fight to any given situation in life. ![]() True that this gives you a sense of achievement but does it really make you happy? Or are you just fooling yourself, believing that it makes you happy? Take a step back and think level-headedly.Īfter all, life isn’t measured by how many times you stood up to fight. It is when you get the feeling that you have done something, is when you usually feel worthwhile and hence happy, isn’t it?īut Stop. Whatever battle it is and for whoever concerned. If you were to analyze your own source of happiness from the above, whether you are inherently a rebel or not, it is plain and simple. ![]() A feeling of happiness sourced from standing up to fight and winning the battle. A feeling that would be relished and enjoyed by thinking about it over and over again. The incredible high that one feels in doing that, a feeling that nobody can explain. Their most memorable moments are the ones where they have shocked traditional people with their words or antics. Starting from revolting against their parent’s strict house rules during childhood, to breaking college norms to the general societal norms existing for marriage, children, work and the usual living of life, the rebels take pride in breaking it all. Their entire life is all about the different battles they fought and how they won it. What then about the ones who are inherently a little revolting in nature? The rebels that you meet in life? For them it is definitely all about the battles and nothing else. How many times do you keep repeating such incidences with pride to your closest friends or family members and feel that sense of achievement within, an unexplainable feeling of happiness over and over again?Īnd this is just for all the usual normal people. Think about it, the cricket match where you scored a century and won, the bully you fought in class and managed to break a few bones of, when you ranked first in class, when you got the better of the girl who dared to ditch you, when you gave back an instant sarcastic retort to a stupid comment made by an equally stupid relative, when you gave it back to the office colleague who was resorting to office politics against you, and the list goes on. What exactly is the sense of Achievement?įor each one of us, our happiest and memorable moments are the ones when we feel the unexplainable feeling of winning, the raw sense of achievement, the adrenaline rush of being proud of ourselves and our achievement. Is satisfaction the end of the desire to achieve?.How having a definite path settles the inner turmoil?.How Important is Setting Up the Goals to Attain a Happy and Peaceful Life?.How to Be Positive and Stay positive? 6.How to be grateful for everything? How To Achieve Success And Happiness In Life?.What exactly is the sense of Achievement?.Guide to why success and achievement bring happiness in life ![]()
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